While many of us frequently do nice things for others, we are almost
certain to mention our acts of kindness to someone else, secretly
seeking their approval.
When we share our own niceness or generosity with someone else, it makes
us feel like we are thoughtful people, it reminds us of how nice we are
and how deserving we are of kindness.
While all acts of kindness are inherently, wonderful, there is something
even more magical about doing something thoughtful but mentioning it to
no one, ever. You always feel good when you give to others. Rather
than diluting the positive feelings by telling others about your own
kindness, by keeping it to yourself you get to retain all the positive
feelings.
It's really true that one should give for the sake of giving, not to
receive something in return. This is precisely what you are doing when
you don't mention your kindness to others - your rewards are the warm
feelings that come from the act of giving. The next time you do
something really nice for someone else, keep it to yourself and revel in the abundant joy of giving.
May 11, 2022
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RICHARD CARLSON
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